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Calming Upset People With EAR

Calming Upset People With EAR

Oct 9, 2017 | Articles for Mediators, Articles for the Public, Mediation Practice

By Bill Eddy | Empathy, attention and respect are the opposite of what you feel like giving someone when he or she is upset and is verbally attacking YOU, but they are what works. People who are very upset generally cannot think well or negotiate constructively. With empathy, attention, and respect, you can help them calm down.

Cleaning out the Garage: A Metaphor for Divorce Mediators

Cleaning out the Garage: A Metaphor for Divorce Mediators

Sep 26, 2017 | Articles for Mediators, Articles for the Public

By Ariella Shuster | Metaphorically, deciding what to keep and what to let go of during divorce and experiencing the associated memories and feelings is like cleaning out a long-cluttered garage.

Using ADR Ideas to Negotiate Divorce Agreements

Using ADR Ideas to Negotiate Divorce Agreements

Jul 23, 2017 | 2017 Summer, Articles for the Public, Divorce, Mediation Practice

By Larry Gaughan | Adversarial attorneys can learn from mediators about using constructive processes instead of exacerbating competitive, dysfunctional divorce negotiations.

Why Do So Many Family Litigants Not Have Lawyers?

Why Do So Many Family Litigants Not Have Lawyers?

Jun 16, 2017 | Articles for the Public, Mediation Practice

By Rachel Birnbaum and Nick Bala | More and more people who are divorcing do it without a lawyer. This research looks at their reasons and at the anticipated consequences of their decisions.

So Much Polarization

So Much Polarization

Jun 12, 2017 | Articles for Mediators, Articles for the Public, Divorce, Mediation Practice

By Donald T. Saposnek, Ph.D. | All these political issues that have become (or continued to be) polarized can be understood within the same conceptual frame as we understand our high conflict divorce cases.

Wisconsin Supreme Court Supports Mediation

Wisconsin Supreme Court Supports Mediation

Jun 3, 2017 | Articles for the Public, Mediation Practice

By Michael J. Dwyer and Susan A. Hansen | Wisconsin will permit mediators who are lawyers to draft and file all legal documents required to implement mediated agreements on behalf of both parties. Families will benefit from this step.

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